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So Thanksgiving is tomorrow and it’s a holiday known for over eating which can pose a problem for many people on a weight loss, fat loss, get ripped program or whatever. Several fitness websites will promote low calorie this, or low carb that in an honest effort to help out the people try to watch what they eat. Some will ask me what they should eat in order to get or stay lean during the holiday season. My response?

Whatever the heck you want.

You see the fact of the matter is that trying to stay “in shape” is a life style…but it’s only one aspect of a life style. You have got to learn balance in order to make it last. At the end of the day being ripped, strong or whatever is their to try and make your life more enjoyable and if you can’t enjoy time with friends and family because of your dedication (addiction) to fitness then you are missing out on the bigger picture.

Besides there are more reasons than enjoyment to splurge every once in awhile. In Marty Gallagher’s book the Purposeful Primitive he mentions something called an Anabolic Burst that happens when you have a period where you aren’t eating enough followed by a feast. What he claims (and I’ve heard it mentioned elsewhere too) is that when you do that your body forgets how to turn the excess calories into fat and turns it into muscle instead. When last I checked putting on a little bit of muscle isn’t a bad thing.

ammo for the guns


Another reason to stuff your face is that if you follow that feast with a fast (assuming you are training and have been on a diet for awhile) then your leptin (a fat burning hormone) up regulates and can kick your fat burning into overdrive. I know I instinctively fast when I eat to much and it helps me stay ripped. It also happens to be something I found I was doing right when I read Eat Stop Eat by Brad Pilon where he talks about including fasts into your lifestyle to get and stay lean year round (something I do)

Well anyways that’s it. I hope you have a happy Thanksgiving and stay relaxed. Thanks for being awesome and reading.

First and foremost I want to send out my thank you’s to the Seal Team
6 members who died in that helicopter crash in Afghanistan and their
families. Whatever good you got going on in your life is because of
the freedom that we enjoy that we are given to us by members of our
military.

3 days ago I was having a conversation with my dad about the kind of
mental training that Seal members go through. If you are unaware
when I was in high school I had dreams about becoming one of the
elite Navy Seals or Recon Marine but my non 20/20 vision prevented
me of getting into the Seals and a reconstructed ACL in my knee
prevented me from being a marine…or so my recruiter told me.

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It was from a martial arts injury.
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Well anyways the topic came up about the 8th week of BUDS training
also known as “hell week” w here they really tax the crap out of you
both mentally and physically. Basically endless amount of
calisthenics, holding rafts over your head, plunges into the cold
water, sleep deprivation and humiliation forge the kind of warrior
that is able to take on these high risk missions.

Supposedly if you can make it to Wednesday during hell week without
quitting, then you go through a transformation known as the “portal
effect” where it is like your mind is sort of disconnected from your
body in terms of discomfort. Think of it as being like that little
green man in Men in Black that rides around in that human looking
vehicle. It is like being traumatized into being tougher.

This is why they are able to do things like taking on machine gun
nests when one of their legs is blown off. It hurts but they have
the mental toughness to push through it because that is the mission
and that is the only thing that matters.
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watch this video
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This video actually points out what it takes to be successful in
just about anything. It describes the top Seals as being naturally
inquisitive and stubborn. Basically that they are always trying to
learn about ways to improve themselves and having the stubborness
to see it through until they have gotten what they set out to do.

Try and apply that to your own training and it can be a homage to
the ones that keep us safe. And if you yourself are in the military
then I thank you for keeping the world safe.

Eric Moss

ps thanks for reading.


I am a fitness professional residing in Hopatcong, NJ, who is dedicated to making myself and my clients as strong as (or stronger than) they look and to look beyond sexy. I help my clients drop body fat quickly, gain strength quickly and I use kettlebells as my main tool and the RKC system as my main methodology. I am a personal trainer with small group personal training and fitness bootcamps in Morris and Sussex County NJ. This fitness blog is where I have become known as a straight shooter with a unique writing style and I have been known to force companies to take videos down where they teach unsafe and ineffective technique with just a couple written words. It has become an inside joke started by a guy that bends steel bars into bonsai tree shaped decorations with his hands, that I don’t wear shirts but that is mainly because I have built up my physique along the lines of a Greek statue and exhibit it proudly.

So I noticed a funny thing over the weekend. In my email inbox I had received a subject line called “how to respond when she says “buy me a drink”‘. Now I already know what I would say to a girl if she told me to buy her a drink. I would say “I don’t think my wife would like that none too much.” and point to my ring but curiosity about what this “dating guru” thinks I should say got the better of me and I put my email address in that email capture to learn the “secrets” of the video.

Well I guess this dating guru was in the middle of launching a product called the “Tao of Badass” and in it he claimed that “any guy can have any girl” if they follow his tips which I guess were supposed to make you appear to be a strong and confident guy. Well it’s funny because as I’m listening to this spiel I started to figure out why this guy seemed so familiar. Well I guess I take a slight issue with his case that “any guy can have any girl” and “girls are waiting for the next better thing” and would likely leave me and that sort of thing.

Want to know why I take issue with it?

Because he tried to date my girl. Obviously not any guy can have any girl because he tried to date her and failed. If my wife was looking for the better thing I guess he wasn’t “it”. And if confidence was the secret…then that guy couldn’t fake what I naturally had.

sorry Mr. "Dating Guru" you ain't gonna take that which I hold dear...because you can't


It’s kind of a funny thing actually. See you could go ahead and invest in tao of badass and maybe learn some dating tips to make you appear confident….or you can start training, getting stronger, looking good and actually become more confident….and you won’t have to fake it either. To quote Chris Jericho in his song With the Fire “I never had to fake it. It’s who I am”

You see even beyond the whole psycho babble about being confident and looking good there is actually more going on then just about anybody realizes. There are pheromones that a lot of people know about and has been exploited for years. That’s a sense of scent but there is more to it then that. Pavel has eluded to something called the “presence of power” in his book Beyond Bodybuilding

“You cannot fake that look…Get the power and you will have the look, guaranteed.” Pavel Tsatsouline

Well once again he’s right. The look isn’t just in the muscles either. A scientific study showed people were able to determine which dudes were strong and which were sissies by photos of their face alone and another study that shows that strength can be determined by voice alone. Apparently there is something that happens beyond getting buff that lets girls know that you are strong enough to protect them and sends a signal out to guys that says “Don’t f’ with me.” Like I said…faking it will only get you so far.

A blackbelt/bouncer friend of mine once said that “knowing is enough”. It’s always the ones that are insecure about themselves that end up starting fights and it’s partially because everyone is perceived as a threat. It’s the people with the Napoleon complex that are constantly trying to throw down and it’s become a joke that the guys with the nice cars are compensating for small genitals (note…I drive a 94 Corolla…nuff said)

I was just listening to a podcast from the makers of the Adonis Effect and Venus Index about how training changes your perspective. Indeed it does. I wouldn’t say it gives you a feeling of superiority but it definitely makes you look at the world different. It doesn’t make you vein…it makes you proud and rightfully so because you have accomplished something. It doesn’t make women wonder if they look fat….it makes them know that they look damn good. When you know these things you project confidence and that will make a person more irresistible then any pick up line can…even if it is based in psychology. Think about it…if you had a body that looked like a Greek statue and the strength and athleticism that impresses fear and admiration, do you think someone is going to steal your girl from you with a couple lines that make her think different? Maybe that would work on someone else’s girl..but not yours. In fact I just got an idea for a book.

Now as for the one that tried to pick up on the girl that I now call my loving wife…well his claim that any guy can have any girl was proved wrong because he couldn’t have mine. When I had heard that he was trying to pick up on my wife I thought to myself “Maybe I should show this guy that I am not someone you want to mess with.” but when I looked at him I decided he didn’t present a credible threat. I didn’t say anything nor did I need to. She wasn’t about to drop me for him…and it’s a good thing because that was the week I proposed to her (nothing says “it’s a good idea to let me annoy you for the rest of your life” like a secluded Caribbean beach and a diamond ring in my pocket).

Get strong, look good, be well conditioned and that will bring about a confidence that doesn’t need to be advertised to be understood.

NJ Kettlebell Fitness Bootcamp Personal Training

Eric Moss RKC


I am a fitness professional residing in Hopatcong, NJ, who is dedicated to making myself and my clients as strong as (or stronger than) they look and to look beyond sexy. I help my clients drop body fat quickly, gain strength quickly and I use kettlebells as my main tool and the RKC system as my main methodology. I am a personal trainer with small group personal training and fitness bootcamps in Morris and Sussex County NJ. This fitness blog is where I have become known as a straight shooter with a unique writing style and I have been known to force companies to take videos down where they teach unsafe and ineffective technique with just a couple written words. It has become an inside joke started by a guy that bends steel bars into bonsai tree shaped decorations with his hands, that I don’t wear shirts but that is mainly because I have built up my physique along the lines of a Greek statue and exhibit it proudly.

“Hi Eric I am calling to ask about joining your fitness bootcamp to help me prepare for my wedding.”

“Sounds great.”

“Now I know this is going to sound weird and to be honest I am a bit embarrassed by this. I work part time as a personal trainer and I know I should be lifting weights but every time I do I get bulky. I know a lot of women are afraid of getting bulky but shouldn’t be but I really do and I don’t want to look that way on my wedding day.”

“When you lift do you lift between 8 and 15 reps like a body builder to try to ‘tone’ your muscle?”

“Yes.”

“Yeah you have been bulking up because you were lifting in the sarcoplasmic hypertrophy rep ranges. You see when you train like a bodybuilder you risk putting on more meat because that’s what those rep ranges are do. What I train you for is a mixture of neurological changes and myofibrillar hypertrophy. Neurological changes don’t really effect the size of the muscle and myofibrillar hypertrophy tends to be not quite as big but much more dense then sarcoplamsic hypertrophy does.”

Hypertrophy in non geek speak means muscle growth.

“Ok I trust your judgement.”

I don’t know if that was the specifics of the conversation I had with my new client to be last summer because at the time I was driving and the place where I was had a whole lot of hills, turns and stop signs and I drive a manual transmission and didn’t have my bluetooth headset in place. At the time I was also a little bit nervous since she was a personal trainer. I was worried she might try to tell people she learned how to train with a kettlebell and become a competitor to me. I was worried she might be just like this guy.
She ended up becoming one of my favorite clients to work with.

That worry maybe lasted 5 mins tops. What I had here was a coach that wanted to learn a different way of doing things and most importantly we had a deadline. She was due to get married in 3 or 4 months (I can’t remember which) and she wanted to lose dress sizes and look great in her dress ASAP. She did a very brilliant thing by taking me on to help her out.

Why?

Because she let me do the worrying about what rep ranges she should be training in (one of the values of having a coach). The only thing she needed to do is trust me and do what I instructed. Now what the heck does this have to do with the rep ranges for bulking and toning? Well I spend a lot of time saying the same old things to women about them not having the necessary hormones for building a ton of muscle and you don’t get that way over night and very few women happen to be the genetic outliers for that and they need to lift heavy to tone up and yada yada yada. What I had here was someone that really did have that problem and needed to work around it and become the perfect example of what I have been saying all along. Well if you don’t know about the different rep ranges read on reader.

You may not always agree with the things I say and that’s ok, (my wife rarely does). I’m sure you’ll agree with me that the human body is an amazing adaptive mechanism. Whatever your stressor is your body can find a way to try to become more efficient at it. Let’s take a look at movement and what happens that can cause your body to adapt and which adaptations will occur and why.

Whenever you try to move, what happens is your brain sends a command through your nervous system to tell your muscle to contract and when that muscle contracts it pulls on a tendon which pulls on your bone and causes movement. Now as you perform this movement your body wants to become better at it so you can either move more weight, perform more reps or whatever. Your body also wants to do the easiest possible thing.

So when you lift a heavy weight for just a few reps the nueral changes which tend to come fastest (yes strength can be built over night) and even within the session (hence the use of feeler sets) are the first to take place. You see most people only are able to activate a small portion of their muscle fibers. Elite athletes can contract more of them and sometimes when you flip the crazy switch that’s when you hear about those Reader’s Digest story’s about ladies lifting cars off of their loved ones. That’s one way.

Now one definition of muscle tone is that it is a nuerological phenomena where muscle fibers are in a half contracted state however this is mostly found in the postural muscles (otherwise we would just collapse). You develop this by practicing movement while minimizing fatigue. However what most people refer to as “toning” in my opinion is a specific type of hypertrophy.

look to the left of this picture and you can see where sarcoplasm and myofibrils


Another way for adaptation to occur is for the muscle fibers themselves to build up the sarcomeres (the myofibrils make up the sarcomeres). This is growth of actual muscle fibers. They are able to produce greater amounts of tension and takes on a dense appearance. Bodybuilders also try to develop this to give their muscles a harder appearance (because of a higher density). This is what I believe most people would mean by the term “toning”.

Then there is sarcoplasmic hypertrophy. The sarcoplasm is like a goo that lies around and between the fibers but doesn’t carry with it contractile strength (the ability to produce tension). What it does carry is energy that would be used in the absence of oxygen to be able to make the muscle contract more times. This tends to take on a “puffy” appearance (not toning) and also produces the most bulk since fluid has a higher volume then a solid. The puffy appearance is because you have essentially filled up your muscle with a liquid instead of a solid which is less dense.

The growth in structure is an adaptation to the functional demands placed on the given system, where adaptation occurs at a molecular level within the genetic structure of the cells. Supertraining Mel Siff

Ok so back to the whole your body adapting thing. Different rep ranges ask for your body to become better at certain things. Here are multiple possible outcomes.
1) Your brain figures out how to contract more muscle fibers.
2) Your muscle fiber itself needs to become stronger in order to minimize future muscle damage and develop more tension.
3) Your body knows that it is probably going to be have to able to do something repetitively and stores more fuel around the muscle fiber to be able to contract more times without getting exhausted.
4) Your body is able to contract it’s muscle fibers many times but at such a low intensity that it can use oxygen to fuel the process (aerobics).

Number 2 would be what most people are after when they say “toning”. The only way to do this would be to lift a heavy weight for a handful of reps. It lies somewhere between 3 and 6 reps with a heavy weight. If you aren’t using a heavy weight the only thing you are doing is kidding yourself.

Number 3 and 4 is what most people try to do to accomplish number 2 but as you can see it would be the opposite because of what those adaptations are actually for. I’ll be honest I have no idea where these myths originated but it has been fueled by all the unscrupulous marketers that keep this myth running strong. My client luckily trusted me and got great results.

Now even though we sometimes used higher reps as dictated in Kettlebell Burn it didn’t overload the muscle to the point of adding unneeded bulk. That fat loss program was meant to deplete some of the fuel that could end up being stored as fat.

Yeah so anyways I hope you understand why low reps with heavy weight are much better for toning muscle then high reps are by looking at what happens under the surface. I also urge you to check out how “toned” the bride that was in my NJ fitness bootcamp is. She trusted me, lifted heavy (as more women should, and looked spectacular on her wedding day. Nuff said.

Eric Moss


I am a fitness professional residing in Hopatcong, NJ, who is dedicated to making myself and my clients as strong as (or stronger than) they look and to look beyond sexy. I help my clients drop body fat quickly, gain strength quickly and I use kettlebells as my main tool and the RKC system as my main methodology. I am a personal trainer with small group personal training and fitness bootcamps in Morris and Sussex County NJ. This fitness blog is where I have become known as a straight shooter with a unique writing style and I have been known to force companies to take videos down where they teach unsafe and ineffective technique with just a couple written words. It has become an inside joke started by a guy that bends steel bars into bonsai tree shaped decorations with his hands, that I don’t wear shirts but that is mainly because I have built up my physique along the lines of a Greek statue and exhibit it proudly.

Alright
So I don’t know how much you are like me but it seems everywhere I go I hear people complaining about the same old problems. Usually the ones I hear are weight related and people are thinking about going the same old paths that people have made mistakes on previously. Normally I keep my mouth shut because I can’t train the world and the reality is that most people don’t have the compliance that is required to achieve their goals. They fall prey to the same old thing that the fitness industry has been putting out there this entire time. Dishonest marketers create these problems in an effort to pretend to have the solution. You’ve probably seen these mistakes before. Here are a couple examples.

starvation diets.
cardio only for fat loss
“fat burning zone”
body part splits
squatting front raises
crunching for abs
fearing big muscles
turning every single workout into a competition
constantly changing the exercises
fearing adaptation
dance exercise for fat loss
high reps for toning low reps for bulking
dangerous breathing
getting training advice from Jillian Micheals
or Bob Harper
watching Jersey Shore
buying protein infused vodka
dangerous form on exercises
unbalanced training
acai berries
“i heard kettlebells hurt your back”
using soup can weights
the shake weight
any ab device sold on late night tv
high repetition plyometrics
deceptive marketers

I could literally go on and on but your eyes are probably starting to glaze over by now. Anyways if you are like me you have probably heard people talking about this stuff and they are probably people you care about too being preyed on by dishonest marketers that build on fears to create problems for them to present themselves as being the solution. Even otherwise smart people who pay attention to their training simply haven’t had the observations or access to the knowledge that I do. One of my favorite clients is a personal trainer who after one session with me looked like she was about to cry claiming “Everything I know is wrong.” (Not wrong…just different from the way I do things.)

The solution my friend is knowledge to fight back. You see I made a lot of these mistakes before. You know those ab belts that electrocute you? Yeah I fell for that one but gimme a break…I was young and new to this stuff. I have built up a wealth of these mistakes that I use to form a base for me to have my common sense approach to training which I try to impart in this here blog. I am passionate about this and want people to learn from my mistakes as well as my successes (I can put the beast overhead, did the 300 workout in 16:10, did 35 consecutive pullups as well as doing a max pullup of 114lbs in addition to bodyweight…not to toot my own horn or nothing)

So back to how you can help me help others. Chances are I have written on a problem that somebody that you know is probably facing right now. My clients that know how I do things compliment me by referring me to people they know and you can sort of do the same. If you see a blog post that may benefit somebody that you care about then send them an email or a facebook message or twitter or whatever it is that you use and tell them about me. I could have the greatest message in the world but if the person with that problem never reads it then they are probably doomed to repeat that mistake and possibly get injured.

You know that I am a straight shooter and tell the truth even if it’s not what people want to hear or if it’s not “marketable”. I am always truthful and this blog is no different. You can help people by showing them the truth. Email them, link them, facebook message them, text them with whatever you think will help them. That is how YOU can make a difference. This blog has given me a voice. You can help me speak and hopefully it will help change lives.

I appreciate it.

Eric Moss


I am a fitness professional residing in Hopatcong, NJ, who is dedicated to making myself and my clients as strong as (or stronger than) they look and to look beyond sexy. I help my clients drop body fat quickly, gain strength quickly and I use kettlebells as my main tool and the RKC system as my main methodology. I am a personal trainer with small group personal training and fitness bootcamps in Morris and Sussex County NJ. This fitness blog is where I have become known as a straight shooter with a unique writing style and I have been known to force companies to take videos down where they teach unsafe and ineffective technique with just a couple written words. It has become an inside joke started by a guy that bends steel bars into bonsai tree shaped decorations with his hands, that I don’t wear shirts but that is mainly because I have built up my physique along the lines of a Greek statue and exhibit it proudly.

Oh one more thing. If you have a friend or you have a problem and want me to write about it just send me an email or facebook message and I’ll write about it (if it’s something I think I know about).