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open mind of a beginner, experience of a vet
Posted by: | CommentsSo I woke up today and realized I haven’t been as consistent with my blogging as I normally am. It’s partially because I have been busy in a good way and partially because I needed to find my muse so I could come up with something half way interesting that has a nice flow to it. Searching for my muse I turned to my facebook followers. Three people answered me (one is going to require a separate blog post since I don’t have the facts about that one yet) and two suggested something along the same lines.

Now I have a question for you. Are you training to get sore…or are you training to get better? You see many people…especially beginners equate the two as being one in the same. I once said as a facebook status update that successful training involves chasing awesomeness, not soreness and some of the coaches I look up to ended up quoting me (I have arrived
).
Not to long ago someone close to me who likes business and stuff had read that crossfit has had a steady climb in popularity according to Google search statistics. Wanting in on the action he decided to go to a local crossfit and did it for a month and when he came over he claimed with a big fat smile on his face that “I have been sore for a month straight.”
Watching him wince as he gets in and out of his truck I said to him “And you think that is a good thing?”
I don’t know maybe it turns out that I’m not all that smart to begin with but I like to think that moving without pain is a good thing…or maybe it’s because my training experience and intuition tells me that soreness isn’t a good thing.
But like I said…a beginner may not know the difference.
Here’s the thing. Beginners come into the training world with hopes and dreams and retain that ability to adapt quickly (since it’s a brand new stimulus) and they have a somewhat uncorrupted mind. Unfortunately with that uncorrupted mind comes the characteristic of being naive which isn’t good in one of the 3 most dishonest industry’s out there (get rich quick, grow your dick and fitness/weight loss).
Every once in awhile I’ll have a coach/personal trainer come my way who wants to get a taste of the way I do thing and the methods to my madness. I ask them to please empty their cup and when they do they are able to move forward. On the same token I can get people who have been corrupted by late night informercials praying on women’s fears of looking like a man if they train to get stronger and I’ll get others who are brand new and are lucky that I got my claws on them first.
When you approach something new…you have to come at it with the mindset of a beginner (because beginners are like a sponge) but with the common sense approach of a veteran. You can see how crazy this can get since that is basically a contradictory statement.
A couple years back I used a bodybuilding approach for strength training and consequently got my ass kicked in a Judo match. Yeah I got stronger but less athletic. I reasoned that I lost it and should just train for looks. Low and behold the kettlebell came my way and I learned the swing from reading Enter the Kettlebell which completely changed my outlook on how to train with form following function and how I explain getting stronger by practice.
Here is how I do it.
Me: If you could press a heavy weight overhead with one hand then you would consider yourself strong right?
Some guy: Yeah.
Me: Now it would make sense that if you took a weight that was challenging but you could press with confidence and did it a bunch of times while staying fresh and did that often…then that weight would no longer be challenging right?
Some guy: Yeah.
Me: Now when that weight becomes easy you move up to another weight that is challenging and do the same thing and eventually that heavy weight will be achievable. That makes sense right?
Some guy: Yeah but you just got better at pressing the weight.
Me: But you yourself said yourself that pressing that weight requires strength.
But what about muscle confusion? What about constant variance of movements? What about no pain no gain? What about dynamic inertia? Well I didn’t achieve a beast bent press by constantly changing the exercise or by working to oblivion. I train to get better…not to get tired.
These are the things that try to cloud and confuse the innocent mind. When you go down the road of strength and physical awesomeness there are many things on the side of the road that might look like gold but are actually just broken glass. Unfortunately it can take experience to determine what is what and which is which. This is where you have to go back on what you have previously learned about life that we call “common sense”. If something makes sense to you you might try it…but rethink it first. I couldn’t believe how on the surface treating training like practice is…but hey, it works.
It can also confuse a beginner’s mindset with the plethora of info that is the internet. Chances are you came upon my blog because you wanted to look into kettlebell training and using them for various purposes. Well lucky you…you found me. Someone who is certified in a system of kettlebell training that is considered the gold standard. Unfortunately people searching for kettlebells might not find someone who knows what they are doing. Like this guy.
Oh wow he fell over…and that’s ok. What a f’n idiot. I am beginning to see a correlation between men who shave their legs and bad training technique.
But you see here is a guy with a bunch of letters and people think he might be respectable. Hell he’s listed on a chiroprator’s site (I count both of them as morons btw.)
Well anyways…keep an open mind but don’t ignore your past experience. Even if you are new to this. Or you could just listen to me:).
Also I started a video log series because writing out these long blog posts takes quite a bit of time. Vlogs don’t take up quite so much. Here is the first episode.
I am a fitness professional residing in Hopatcong, NJ, who is dedicated to making myself and my clients as strong as (or stronger than) they look and to look beyond sexy. I help my clients drop body fat quickly, gain strength quickly and I use kettlebells as my main tool and the RKC system as my main methodology. I am a personal trainer with small group personal training and fitness bootcamps in Morris and Sussex County NJ. This fitness blog is where I have become known as a straight shooter with a unique writing style and I have been known to force companies to take videos down where they teach unsafe and ineffective technique with just a couple written words. It has become an inside joke started by a guy that bends steel bars into bonsai tree shaped decorations with his hands, that I don’t wear shirts but that is mainly because I have built up my physique along the lines of a Greek statue and exhibit it proudly.
Train to get strong, so that you don’t have to fake it till you make it
Posted by: | CommentsSo I noticed a funny thing over the weekend. In my email inbox I had received a subject line called “how to respond when she says “buy me a drink”‘. Now I already know what I would say to a girl if she told me to buy her a drink. I would say “I don’t think my wife would like that none too much.” and point to my ring but curiosity about what this “dating guru” thinks I should say got the better of me and I put my email address in that email capture to learn the “secrets” of the video.
Well I guess this dating guru was in the middle of launching a product called the “Tao of Badass” and in it he claimed that “any guy can have any girl” if they follow his tips which I guess were supposed to make you appear to be a strong and confident guy. Well it’s funny because as I’m listening to this spiel I started to figure out why this guy seemed so familiar. Well I guess I take a slight issue with his case that “any guy can have any girl” and “girls are waiting for the next better thing” and would likely leave me and that sort of thing.
Want to know why I take issue with it?
Because he tried to date my girl. Obviously not any guy can have any girl because he tried to date her and failed. If my wife was looking for the better thing I guess he wasn’t “it”. And if confidence was the secret…then that guy couldn’t fake what I naturally had.
It’s kind of a funny thing actually. See you could go ahead and invest in tao of badass and maybe learn some dating tips to make you appear confident….or you can start training, getting stronger, looking good and actually become more confident….and you won’t have to fake it either. To quote Chris Jericho in his song With the Fire “I never had to fake it. It’s who I am”
You see even beyond the whole psycho babble about being confident and looking good there is actually more going on then just about anybody realizes. There are pheromones that a lot of people know about and has been exploited for years. That’s a sense of scent but there is more to it then that. Pavel has eluded to something called the “presence of power” in his book Beyond Bodybuilding
“You cannot fake that look…Get the power and you will have the look, guaranteed.” Pavel Tsatsouline
Well once again he’s right. The look isn’t just in the muscles either. A scientific study showed people were able to determine which dudes were strong and which were sissies by photos of their face alone and another study that shows that strength can be determined by voice alone. Apparently there is something that happens beyond getting buff that lets girls know that you are strong enough to protect them and sends a signal out to guys that says “Don’t f’ with me.” Like I said…faking it will only get you so far.
A blackbelt/bouncer friend of mine once said that “knowing is enough”. It’s always the ones that are insecure about themselves that end up starting fights and it’s partially because everyone is perceived as a threat. It’s the people with the Napoleon complex that are constantly trying to throw down and it’s become a joke that the guys with the nice cars are compensating for small genitals (note…I drive a 94 Corolla…nuff said)

I was just listening to a podcast from the makers of the Adonis Effect and Venus Index about how training changes your perspective. Indeed it does. I wouldn’t say it gives you a feeling of superiority but it definitely makes you look at the world different. It doesn’t make you vein…it makes you proud and rightfully so because you have accomplished something. It doesn’t make women wonder if they look fat….it makes them know that they look damn good. When you know these things you project confidence and that will make a person more irresistible then any pick up line can…even if it is based in psychology. Think about it…if you had a body that looked like a Greek statue and the strength and athleticism that impresses fear and admiration, do you think someone is going to steal your girl from you with a couple lines that make her think different? Maybe that would work on someone else’s girl..but not yours. In fact I just got an idea for a book.
Now as for the one that tried to pick up on the girl that I now call my loving wife…well his claim that any guy can have any girl was proved wrong because he couldn’t have mine. When I had heard that he was trying to pick up on my wife I thought to myself “Maybe I should show this guy that I am not someone you want to mess with.” but when I looked at him I decided he didn’t present a credible threat. I didn’t say anything nor did I need to. She wasn’t about to drop me for him…and it’s a good thing because that was the week I proposed to her (nothing says “it’s a good idea to let me annoy you for the rest of your life” like a secluded Caribbean beach and a diamond ring in my pocket).
Get strong, look good, be well conditioned and that will bring about a confidence that doesn’t need to be advertised to be understood.
I am a fitness professional residing in Hopatcong, NJ, who is dedicated to making myself and my clients as strong as (or stronger than) they look and to look beyond sexy. I help my clients drop body fat quickly, gain strength quickly and I use kettlebells as my main tool and the RKC system as my main methodology. I am a personal trainer with small group personal training and fitness bootcamps in Morris and Sussex County NJ. This fitness blog is where I have become known as a straight shooter with a unique writing style and I have been known to force companies to take videos down where they teach unsafe and ineffective technique with just a couple written words. It has become an inside joke started by a guy that bends steel bars into bonsai tree shaped decorations with his hands, that I don’t wear shirts but that is mainly because I have built up my physique along the lines of a Greek statue and exhibit it proudly.
The optimal pressing groove to lift heavy metal over your head
Posted by: | CommentsThese past couple weeks have been busy with changing the location of my NJ Kettlebell Fitness Bootcamps from Parsippany to Pinebrook, dealing the with the death of my kitty as well as trying to continually improve both my fitness, education and results for my clients. Well last week one of my clients for the first time was able to stack press 80lbs over his head with one hand. For those that don’t know, a stacked press is one where you have two kettlebells balanced on top of each other and you press them overhead in one hand. This is more difficult to perform then a standard military press since is shifts the center of gravity upwards but is a great way to bust through a plateau in the press. I used it on another one of my clients and as I always enjoy doing she ended up setting a personal record just like another did last week.
Now it’s kind of a funny thing that happened because as she did this and she attributes part of this the music that was being played I took a snap shot of my screen and saved it because I think this could benefit you too and as my mind tends to have a zillion things happen at once I noticed a parallel between the lyrics of the song and what we do.
The Metallica song Eye of the beholder came on and this particular set of lyrics can describe how best to overhead press.
Doesn’t Matter What You See
Or into it What You Read
You Can Do it Your Own Way
If It’s Done Just How I Say
You’ve probably seen fitness models posing for certain exercises in books and have probably tried to copy them. This isn’t the best thing for you to do. Fitness models for one thing are often unfamiliar with the exercises and will sacrifice form for the sake of getting a flattering camera angle. Also they are forced to hold certain poses and some are just plain easier to hold then others…and even if what they are doing is in fact correct for them it doesn’t mean it is necessarily correct for you.
You see everyone is built somewhat different and we are all going to have different pressing paths. My pressing path isn’t going to look exactly like yours and yours isn’t going to look exactly like mine. The main points that you have to get is an appropriate level of tension, knees locked, glutes squeezed tight, activating the lat, forearm vertical, arm will travel somewhat out and up at the same time. How much out and how much up is the main thing that changes.
One way you can figure out what your optimal pressing path is to experiment with a variety of arm positions and the one that you find easiest to activate the lat is probably going to be your optimal groove. Activation of the lat can make the difference between a powerful press and something that injures your shoulder. Well as for her press…here was the result.

On the same note another one of my clients last week set a personal record in the overhead press with his own slightly different groove. This one didn’t have any music because we were outdoors when doing this training but hey the results still ended up the same. Here is his result.

So figure out your optimal pressing groove and practice it a lot and you can have a halfway decent press too. You don’t even need to own heavy kettlebells to have a big press if you practice the stacked press. Don’t constantly change the exercises (that constant variance is just another word for muscle confusion.) Get good at exercises that have a high carry over to other things rather then constantly changing things and you will have that functional strength that it seems every fitness bootcamp promises.
I am a fitness professional residing in Hopatcong, NJ, who is dedicated to making myself and my clients as strong as (or stronger than) they look and to look beyond sexy. I help my clients drop body fat quickly, gain strength quickly and I use kettlebells as my main tool and the RKC system as my main methodology. I am a personal trainer with small group personal training and “fitness bootcamps” in Morris and Sussex County NJ. This fitness blog is where I have become known as a straight shooter with a unique writing style and I have been known to force companies to take videos down where they teach unsafe and ineffective technique with just a couple written words. It has become an inside joke started by a guy that bends steel bars into bonsai tree shaped decorations with his hands, that I don’t wear shirts but that is mainly because I have built up my physique along the lines of a Greek statue and exhibit it proudly.
The most important show on TV – Jamie Oliver’s Food Revolution
Posted by: | CommentsI just wanted to take a moment to point out what I believe to be the most important show on television currently. That is Jamie Oliver’s Food Revolution. You see over here in the United States it is a money driven society where business’ and the government thrives on having a profit. This isn’t a bad thing until you start cutting into the quality of things that are provided. Now when you need to make more of a profit you can either increase the price of something, effect more people, or decrease the operating costs. This is where high fructose corn syrup took over where sugar was (sugar isn’t great for you but it is the less of two evils). Now this is all fun and good when you are shopping for yourself even though it seems grown ups are unable to make grown up decisions. The problem here is when it effects the kids. Take a look at this first episode in it’s entirety to see just what is being shoved down the kids throats (the school bus scene).
episode #1 of the second season
and watch episode #2 to see just what a pain in the ass politics can be when it comes to changing things for the better. Seriously some of these people just need to get smacked around a bit.
These are only a few instances. There are more but you’ll have to keep your eye out for them since this stuff is literally EVERYWHERE. Even stuff that is packaged as being “good for you” often times isn’t. One of my colleagues by the name of Faizal pointed out in one of his facebook posts that there was some kind of frosted cereal being listed as having fiber…so therefore it’s good for you….right. Except that for the most part when it comes to food for every good thing they put in there, they probably put in about 5 bad things. Now every dietitian these days seems to contradict the other but for the most part I believe in the Jack Lalanne way of doing things. “If God didn’t make it, I don’t eat it.” For the record, yes I do eat junk but I keep it within reason. I just try to eat wholesome good food and I train and monitor myself to just keep me in check. I weighed in today at 153lbs which is in the range I like to stay in.
Be strong, be good.
I am a fitness professional residing in Hopatcong, NJ, who is dedicated to making myself and my clients as strong as (or stronger than) they look and to look beyond sexy. I help my clients drop body fat quickly, gain strength quickly and I use kettlebells as my main tool and the RKC system as my main methodology. I am a personal trainer with small group personal training and fitness bootcamps in Morris and Sussex County NJ. This fitness blog is where I have become known as a straight shooter with a unique writing style and I have been known to force companies to take videos down where they teach unsafe and ineffective technique with just a couple written words. It has become an inside joke started by a guy that bends steel bars into bonsai tree shaped decorations with his hands, that I don’t wear shirts but that is mainly because I have built up my physique along the lines of a Greek statue and exhibit it proudly.
The reason low reps with heavy weight are better for “muscle toning” then high reps are.
Posted by: | Comments“Hi Eric I am calling to ask about joining your fitness bootcamp to help me prepare for my wedding.”
“Sounds great.”
“Now I know this is going to sound weird and to be honest I am a bit embarrassed by this. I work part time as a personal trainer and I know I should be lifting weights but every time I do I get bulky. I know a lot of women are afraid of getting bulky but shouldn’t be but I really do and I don’t want to look that way on my wedding day.”
“When you lift do you lift between 8 and 15 reps like a body builder to try to ‘tone’ your muscle?”
“Yes.”
“Yeah you have been bulking up because you were lifting in the sarcoplasmic hypertrophy rep ranges. You see when you train like a bodybuilder you risk putting on more meat because that’s what those rep ranges are do. What I train you for is a mixture of neurological changes and myofibrillar hypertrophy. Neurological changes don’t really effect the size of the muscle and myofibrillar hypertrophy tends to be not quite as big but much more dense then sarcoplamsic hypertrophy does.”
Hypertrophy in non geek speak means muscle growth.
“Ok I trust your judgement.”
I don’t know if that was the specifics of the conversation I had with my new client to be last summer because at the time I was driving and the place where I was had a whole lot of hills, turns and stop signs and I drive a manual transmission and didn’t have my bluetooth headset in place. At the time I was also a little bit nervous since she was a personal trainer. I was worried she might try to tell people she learned how to train with a kettlebell and become a competitor to me. I was worried she might be just like this guy.
She ended up becoming one of my favorite clients to work with.
That worry maybe lasted 5 mins tops. What I had here was a coach that wanted to learn a different way of doing things and most importantly we had a deadline. She was due to get married in 3 or 4 months (I can’t remember which) and she wanted to lose dress sizes and look great in her dress ASAP. She did a very brilliant thing by taking me on to help her out.
Why?
Because she let me do the worrying about what rep ranges she should be training in (one of the values of having a coach). The only thing she needed to do is trust me and do what I instructed. Now what the heck does this have to do with the rep ranges for bulking and toning? Well I spend a lot of time saying the same old things to women about them not having the necessary hormones for building a ton of muscle and you don’t get that way over night and very few women happen to be the genetic outliers for that and they need to lift heavy to tone up and yada yada yada. What I had here was someone that really did have that problem and needed to work around it and become the perfect example of what I have been saying all along. Well if you don’t know about the different rep ranges read on reader.
You may not always agree with the things I say and that’s ok, (my wife rarely does). I’m sure you’ll agree with me that the human body is an amazing adaptive mechanism. Whatever your stressor is your body can find a way to try to become more efficient at it. Let’s take a look at movement and what happens that can cause your body to adapt and which adaptations will occur and why.
Whenever you try to move, what happens is your brain sends a command through your nervous system to tell your muscle to contract and when that muscle contracts it pulls on a tendon which pulls on your bone and causes movement. Now as you perform this movement your body wants to become better at it so you can either move more weight, perform more reps or whatever. Your body also wants to do the easiest possible thing.
So when you lift a heavy weight for just a few reps the nueral changes which tend to come fastest (yes strength can be built over night) and even within the session (hence the use of feeler sets) are the first to take place. You see most people only are able to activate a small portion of their muscle fibers. Elite athletes can contract more of them and sometimes when you flip the crazy switch that’s when you hear about those Reader’s Digest story’s about ladies lifting cars off of their loved ones. That’s one way.
Now one definition of muscle tone is that it is a nuerological phenomena where muscle fibers are in a half contracted state however this is mostly found in the postural muscles (otherwise we would just collapse). You develop this by practicing movement while minimizing fatigue. However what most people refer to as “toning” in my opinion is a specific type of hypertrophy.
Another way for adaptation to occur is for the muscle fibers themselves to build up the sarcomeres (the myofibrils make up the sarcomeres). This is growth of actual muscle fibers. They are able to produce greater amounts of tension and takes on a dense appearance. Bodybuilders also try to develop this to give their muscles a harder appearance (because of a higher density). This is what I believe most people would mean by the term “toning”.
Then there is sarcoplasmic hypertrophy. The sarcoplasm is like a goo that lies around and between the fibers but doesn’t carry with it contractile strength (the ability to produce tension). What it does carry is energy that would be used in the absence of oxygen to be able to make the muscle contract more times. This tends to take on a “puffy” appearance (not toning) and also produces the most bulk since fluid has a higher volume then a solid. The puffy appearance is because you have essentially filled up your muscle with a liquid instead of a solid which is less dense.
The growth in structure is an adaptation to the functional demands placed on the given system, where adaptation occurs at a molecular level within the genetic structure of the cells. Supertraining Mel Siff
Ok so back to the whole your body adapting thing. Different rep ranges ask for your body to become better at certain things. Here are multiple possible outcomes.
1) Your brain figures out how to contract more muscle fibers.
2) Your muscle fiber itself needs to become stronger in order to minimize future muscle damage and develop more tension.
3) Your body knows that it is probably going to be have to able to do something repetitively and stores more fuel around the muscle fiber to be able to contract more times without getting exhausted.
4) Your body is able to contract it’s muscle fibers many times but at such a low intensity that it can use oxygen to fuel the process (aerobics).
Number 2 would be what most people are after when they say “toning”. The only way to do this would be to lift a heavy weight for a handful of reps. It lies somewhere between 3 and 6 reps with a heavy weight. If you aren’t using a heavy weight the only thing you are doing is kidding yourself.
Number 3 and 4 is what most people try to do to accomplish number 2 but as you can see it would be the opposite because of what those adaptations are actually for. I’ll be honest I have no idea where these myths originated but it has been fueled by all the unscrupulous marketers that keep this myth running strong. My client luckily trusted me and got great results.
Now even though we sometimes used higher reps as dictated in Kettlebell Burn it didn’t overload the muscle to the point of adding unneeded bulk. That fat loss program was meant to deplete some of the fuel that could end up being stored as fat.
Yeah so anyways I hope you understand why low reps with heavy weight are much better for toning muscle then high reps are by looking at what happens under the surface. I also urge you to check out how “toned” the bride that was in my NJ fitness bootcamp is. She trusted me, lifted heavy (as more women should, and looked spectacular on her wedding day. Nuff said.
I am a fitness professional residing in Hopatcong, NJ, who is dedicated to making myself and my clients as strong as (or stronger than) they look and to look beyond sexy. I help my clients drop body fat quickly, gain strength quickly and I use kettlebells as my main tool and the RKC system as my main methodology. I am a personal trainer with small group personal training and fitness bootcamps in Morris and Sussex County NJ. This fitness blog is where I have become known as a straight shooter with a unique writing style and I have been known to force companies to take videos down where they teach unsafe and ineffective technique with just a couple written words. It has become an inside joke started by a guy that bends steel bars into bonsai tree shaped decorations with his hands, that I don’t wear shirts but that is mainly because I have built up my physique along the lines of a Greek statue and exhibit it proudly.

















