Rest in Peace Cookie
By · CommentsYou’ve probably noticed I haven’t been so talkative online on my facebook or on my blog. The reason for this is because a little less then 2 weeks ago on Easter Sunday I lost something very close to me. My cat Cookie.

Cookie was a wonderful cat that I raised from a kitten. When we first picked him up from that God forsaken place that was raising him he was filthy. First thing we did when we got home was give him a nice warm shower in the kitchen sink because the place he came from must have had him in his own filth. As he was growing up he liked to drink from the faucet and we think it was because he equated water going over his head with a loving home.
As he was growing up he would always get into some sort of shenanigans whether it was getting stuck behind my mom’s organ pedal, getting trapped in the linen closet or finding his way into a hole that was above the fridge where he could walk out over pretty much the entire first floor of my parents’ house. Some of his favorite games that he would play with us were stalking us as we came up the stairs, hiding in the end of a couch castle that I would make for him and when you stuck your face in there to look at him he would charge at you (which would guarantee to give you startle.), and of course chasing string, lasers, rolls of tape that came whizzing by and that sort of thing.
He used to find strategic places of sleeping so you couldn’t help but pet him or cuddle up with him as we would walk by. Whenever he was asleep and you pet him he would curl up even tighter to show you how much he enjoyed being pet. He would also experiment with different poses to see which one was cutest (my favorite was when he would cover his eyes with his paws) to tempt you into petting him.
We would always leave our door open so that he could come and go as he pleases and if you were the lucky one he chose to cuddle with that night you could always tell when he fell asleep because he would stop purring and start snoring.
No matter how comfy and enjoyable I made his life I am still very sad that he has passed. Even now as I write this 2 weeks later I am wellling up with tears and I miss him very very much. Rest in peace Cookie. I love you and miss you a lot. You were such a good cat.
If you have a beloved pet…scratch them behind the ear for me. It is something I will never be able to do to Cookie again which makes me incredibly sad.
Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.
You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.
Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together….
Author unknown…
Eric Moss
I just wanted to take a moment to point out what I believe to be the most important show on television currently. That is Jamie Oliver’s Food Revolution. You see over here in the United States it is a money driven society where business’ and the government thrives on having a profit. This isn’t a bad thing until you start cutting into the quality of things that are provided. Now when you need to make more of a profit you can either increase the price of something, effect more people, or decrease the operating costs. This is where high fructose corn syrup took over where sugar was (sugar isn’t great for you but it is the less of two evils). Now this is all fun and good when you are shopping for yourself even though it seems grown ups are unable to make grown up decisions. The problem here is when it effects the kids. Take a look at this first episode in it’s entirety to see just what is being shoved down the kids throats (the school bus scene).
episode #1 of the second season
and watch episode #2 to see just what a pain in the ass politics can be when it comes to changing things for the better. Seriously some of these people just need to get smacked around a bit.
These are only a few instances. There are more but you’ll have to keep your eye out for them since this stuff is literally EVERYWHERE. Even stuff that is packaged as being “good for you” often times isn’t. One of my colleagues by the name of Faizal pointed out in one of his facebook posts that there was some kind of frosted cereal being listed as having fiber…so therefore it’s good for you….right. Except that for the most part when it comes to food for every good thing they put in there, they probably put in about 5 bad things. Now every dietitian these days seems to contradict the other but for the most part I believe in the Jack Lalanne way of doing things. “If God didn’t make it, I don’t eat it.” For the record, yes I do eat junk but I keep it within reason. I just try to eat wholesome good food and I train and monitor myself to just keep me in check. I weighed in today at 153lbs which is in the range I like to stay in.
Be strong, be good.
I am a fitness professional residing in Hopatcong, NJ, who is dedicated to making myself and my clients as strong as (or stronger than) they look and to look beyond sexy. I help my clients drop body fat quickly, gain strength quickly and I use kettlebells as my main tool and the RKC system as my main methodology. I am a personal trainer with small group personal training and fitness bootcamps in Morris and Sussex County NJ. This fitness blog is where I have become known as a straight shooter with a unique writing style and I have been known to force companies to take videos down where they teach unsafe and ineffective technique with just a couple written words. It has become an inside joke started by a guy that bends steel bars into bonsai tree shaped decorations with his hands, that I don’t wear shirts but that is mainly because I have built up my physique along the lines of a Greek statue and exhibit it proudly.
“Hi Eric I am calling to ask about joining your fitness bootcamp to help me prepare for my wedding.”
“Sounds great.”
“Now I know this is going to sound weird and to be honest I am a bit embarrassed by this. I work part time as a personal trainer and I know I should be lifting weights but every time I do I get bulky. I know a lot of women are afraid of getting bulky but shouldn’t be but I really do and I don’t want to look that way on my wedding day.”
“When you lift do you lift between 8 and 15 reps like a body builder to try to ‘tone’ your muscle?”
“Yes.”
“Yeah you have been bulking up because you were lifting in the sarcoplasmic hypertrophy rep ranges. You see when you train like a bodybuilder you risk putting on more meat because that’s what those rep ranges are do. What I train you for is a mixture of neurological changes and myofibrillar hypertrophy. Neurological changes don’t really effect the size of the muscle and myofibrillar hypertrophy tends to be not quite as big but much more dense then sarcoplamsic hypertrophy does.”
Hypertrophy in non geek speak means muscle growth.
“Ok I trust your judgement.”
I don’t know if that was the specifics of the conversation I had with my new client to be last summer because at the time I was driving and the place where I was had a whole lot of hills, turns and stop signs and I drive a manual transmission and didn’t have my bluetooth headset in place. At the time I was also a little bit nervous since she was a personal trainer. I was worried she might try to tell people she learned how to train with a kettlebell and become a competitor to me. I was worried she might be just like this guy.
She ended up becoming one of my favorite clients to work with.
That worry maybe lasted 5 mins tops. What I had here was a coach that wanted to learn a different way of doing things and most importantly we had a deadline. She was due to get married in 3 or 4 months (I can’t remember which) and she wanted to lose dress sizes and look great in her dress ASAP. She did a very brilliant thing by taking me on to help her out.
Why?
Because she let me do the worrying about what rep ranges she should be training in (one of the values of having a coach). The only thing she needed to do is trust me and do what I instructed. Now what the heck does this have to do with the rep ranges for bulking and toning? Well I spend a lot of time saying the same old things to women about them not having the necessary hormones for building a ton of muscle and you don’t get that way over night and very few women happen to be the genetic outliers for that and they need to lift heavy to tone up and yada yada yada. What I had here was someone that really did have that problem and needed to work around it and become the perfect example of what I have been saying all along. Well if you don’t know about the different rep ranges read on reader.
You may not always agree with the things I say and that’s ok, (my wife rarely does). I’m sure you’ll agree with me that the human body is an amazing adaptive mechanism. Whatever your stressor is your body can find a way to try to become more efficient at it. Let’s take a look at movement and what happens that can cause your body to adapt and which adaptations will occur and why.
Whenever you try to move, what happens is your brain sends a command through your nervous system to tell your muscle to contract and when that muscle contracts it pulls on a tendon which pulls on your bone and causes movement. Now as you perform this movement your body wants to become better at it so you can either move more weight, perform more reps or whatever. Your body also wants to do the easiest possible thing.
So when you lift a heavy weight for just a few reps the nueral changes which tend to come fastest (yes strength can be built over night) and even within the session (hence the use of feeler sets) are the first to take place. You see most people only are able to activate a small portion of their muscle fibers. Elite athletes can contract more of them and sometimes when you flip the crazy switch that’s when you hear about those Reader’s Digest story’s about ladies lifting cars off of their loved ones. That’s one way.
Now one definition of muscle tone is that it is a nuerological phenomena where muscle fibers are in a half contracted state however this is mostly found in the postural muscles (otherwise we would just collapse). You develop this by practicing movement while minimizing fatigue. However what most people refer to as “toning” in my opinion is a specific type of hypertrophy.
Another way for adaptation to occur is for the muscle fibers themselves to build up the sarcomeres (the myofibrils make up the sarcomeres). This is growth of actual muscle fibers. They are able to produce greater amounts of tension and takes on a dense appearance. Bodybuilders also try to develop this to give their muscles a harder appearance (because of a higher density). This is what I believe most people would mean by the term “toning”.
Then there is sarcoplasmic hypertrophy. The sarcoplasm is like a goo that lies around and between the fibers but doesn’t carry with it contractile strength (the ability to produce tension). What it does carry is energy that would be used in the absence of oxygen to be able to make the muscle contract more times. This tends to take on a “puffy” appearance (not toning) and also produces the most bulk since fluid has a higher volume then a solid. The puffy appearance is because you have essentially filled up your muscle with a liquid instead of a solid which is less dense.
The growth in structure is an adaptation to the functional demands placed on the given system, where adaptation occurs at a molecular level within the genetic structure of the cells. Supertraining Mel Siff
Ok so back to the whole your body adapting thing. Different rep ranges ask for your body to become better at certain things. Here are multiple possible outcomes.
1) Your brain figures out how to contract more muscle fibers.
2) Your muscle fiber itself needs to become stronger in order to minimize future muscle damage and develop more tension.
3) Your body knows that it is probably going to be have to able to do something repetitively and stores more fuel around the muscle fiber to be able to contract more times without getting exhausted.
4) Your body is able to contract it’s muscle fibers many times but at such a low intensity that it can use oxygen to fuel the process (aerobics).
Number 2 would be what most people are after when they say “toning”. The only way to do this would be to lift a heavy weight for a handful of reps. It lies somewhere between 3 and 6 reps with a heavy weight. If you aren’t using a heavy weight the only thing you are doing is kidding yourself.
Number 3 and 4 is what most people try to do to accomplish number 2 but as you can see it would be the opposite because of what those adaptations are actually for. I’ll be honest I have no idea where these myths originated but it has been fueled by all the unscrupulous marketers that keep this myth running strong. My client luckily trusted me and got great results.
Now even though we sometimes used higher reps as dictated in Kettlebell Burn it didn’t overload the muscle to the point of adding unneeded bulk. That fat loss program was meant to deplete some of the fuel that could end up being stored as fat.
Yeah so anyways I hope you understand why low reps with heavy weight are much better for toning muscle then high reps are by looking at what happens under the surface. I also urge you to check out how “toned” the bride that was in my NJ fitness bootcamp is. She trusted me, lifted heavy (as more women should, and looked spectacular on her wedding day. Nuff said.
I am a fitness professional residing in Hopatcong, NJ, who is dedicated to making myself and my clients as strong as (or stronger than) they look and to look beyond sexy. I help my clients drop body fat quickly, gain strength quickly and I use kettlebells as my main tool and the RKC system as my main methodology. I am a personal trainer with small group personal training and fitness bootcamps in Morris and Sussex County NJ. This fitness blog is where I have become known as a straight shooter with a unique writing style and I have been known to force companies to take videos down where they teach unsafe and ineffective technique with just a couple written words. It has become an inside joke started by a guy that bends steel bars into bonsai tree shaped decorations with his hands, that I don’t wear shirts but that is mainly because I have built up my physique along the lines of a Greek statue and exhibit it proudly.
They need your help and I need your help to help them.
By · CommentsAlright
So I don’t know how much you are like me but it seems everywhere I go I hear people complaining about the same old problems. Usually the ones I hear are weight related and people are thinking about going the same old paths that people have made mistakes on previously. Normally I keep my mouth shut because I can’t train the world and the reality is that most people don’t have the compliance that is required to achieve their goals. They fall prey to the same old thing that the fitness industry has been putting out there this entire time. Dishonest marketers create these problems in an effort to pretend to have the solution. You’ve probably seen these mistakes before. Here are a couple examples.
starvation diets.
cardio only for fat loss
“fat burning zone”
body part splits
squatting front raises
crunching for abs
fearing big muscles
turning every single workout into a competition
constantly changing the exercises
fearing adaptation
dance exercise for fat loss
high reps for toning low reps for bulking
dangerous breathing
getting training advice from Jillian Micheals
or Bob Harper
watching Jersey Shore
buying protein infused vodka
dangerous form on exercises
unbalanced training
acai berries
“i heard kettlebells hurt your back”
using soup can weights
the shake weight
any ab device sold on late night tv
high repetition plyometrics
deceptive marketers
I could literally go on and on but your eyes are probably starting to glaze over by now. Anyways if you are like me you have probably heard people talking about this stuff and they are probably people you care about too being preyed on by dishonest marketers that build on fears to create problems for them to present themselves as being the solution. Even otherwise smart people who pay attention to their training simply haven’t had the observations or access to the knowledge that I do. One of my favorite clients is a personal trainer who after one session with me looked like she was about to cry claiming “Everything I know is wrong.” (Not wrong…just different from the way I do things.)
The solution my friend is knowledge to fight back. You see I made a lot of these mistakes before. You know those ab belts that electrocute you? Yeah I fell for that one but gimme a break…I was young and new to this stuff. I have built up a wealth of these mistakes that I use to form a base for me to have my common sense approach to training which I try to impart in this here blog. I am passionate about this and want people to learn from my mistakes as well as my successes (I can put the beast overhead, did the 300 workout in 16:10, did 35 consecutive pullups as well as doing a max pullup of 114lbs in addition to bodyweight…not to toot my own horn or nothing)
So back to how you can help me help others. Chances are I have written on a problem that somebody that you know is probably facing right now. My clients that know how I do things compliment me by referring me to people they know and you can sort of do the same. If you see a blog post that may benefit somebody that you care about then send them an email or a facebook message or twitter or whatever it is that you use and tell them about me. I could have the greatest message in the world but if the person with that problem never reads it then they are probably doomed to repeat that mistake and possibly get injured.
You know that I am a straight shooter and tell the truth even if it’s not what people want to hear or if it’s not “marketable”. I am always truthful and this blog is no different. You can help people by showing them the truth. Email them, link them, facebook message them, text them with whatever you think will help them. That is how YOU can make a difference. This blog has given me a voice. You can help me speak and hopefully it will help change lives.
I appreciate it.
I am a fitness professional residing in Hopatcong, NJ, who is dedicated to making myself and my clients as strong as (or stronger than) they look and to look beyond sexy. I help my clients drop body fat quickly, gain strength quickly and I use kettlebells as my main tool and the RKC system as my main methodology. I am a personal trainer with small group personal training and fitness bootcamps in Morris and Sussex County NJ. This fitness blog is where I have become known as a straight shooter with a unique writing style and I have been known to force companies to take videos down where they teach unsafe and ineffective technique with just a couple written words. It has become an inside joke started by a guy that bends steel bars into bonsai tree shaped decorations with his hands, that I don’t wear shirts but that is mainly because I have built up my physique along the lines of a Greek statue and exhibit it proudly.
Oh one more thing. If you have a friend or you have a problem and want me to write about it just send me an email or facebook message and I’ll write about it (if it’s something I think I know about).
Why me?
By · CommentsHey
I need a favor from you. I was doing some soul searching not long ago and I wanted to know more about the type of people who read my blog and why. You see I was talking to someone about what it is that I do and they had said
“Well everybody promises that. What makes you so special? Why should they listen to you? Why should anyone care about what you have to say?”
And he was right. Everybody makes the same promises. Everybody claims to have the truth. Everybody wants to speak their minds. I know for me personally I have developed a bit of a filter to be able to sort through what I think is junk and what I think is good stuff but for someone that doesn’t eat and breathe this stuff there was some reason you found me here.
There was a reason you wanted to hear more about what I have to say.
There was a reason you gave me your email address to stay informed even though I wasn’t promising anything other then keeping you up to date about what I was talking about. Why did you give me your email address?
You know I try to be as real as I can be but how did you know I was real when everybody tries to do that?
I would really appreciate it if you left the answers as a comment on this blog post. Thank you
I am a fitness professional residing in Hopatcong, NJ, who is dedicated to making myself and my clients as strong as (or stronger than) they look and to look beyond sexy. I helps my clients drop body fat quickly, gain strength quickly and I use kettlebells as my main tool and the RKC system as his main methodology. I am a personal trainer with small group personal training in Morris and Sussex County NJ. This fitness blog is where I have become known as a straight shooter with a unique writing style and I have been known to force companies to take videos down where they teach unsafe and ineffective technique with just a couple written words. It has become an inside joke that I don’t wear shirts but that is mainly because I have built up my physique along the lines of a Greek statue and exhibit it proudly.
p.s. If you are local this might be your last opportunity to train with me one on one at an incredible rate and at the same time help a fellow comrade in his fight against cancer. Go to the fight for Brian auction page immediately because there isn’t much time left.















