Why I’ve been so quiet

Ok as you know I used to update my blog pretty regularly with blog posts that were simultaneously meant to educate and entertain you while simultaneously giving you an idea of my personality, making you trust me by being honest whether or not it was popular opinion (especially if it isn’t popular opinion lol) and then all of a sudden my blog posts and youtube videos stopped coming out. The few that did were seemingly uninspired and I figured I’d let you know what’s going on because some of you have expressed concern for me which even though I may never have met you, it means a lot.

Well truth be told back in the period between September through now I had separated from my wife which was an extremely dark time for me. If you have been on my newsletter (hint you should sign up for my newsletter) then you might have noticed a I had recommended doing an incantation to yourself to get you through a dark time where you look at yourself in the mirror everyday and say “You are too strong and awesome to be defeated” and you repeat that until you are better. I won’t go into the details behind the split because I don’t think it would be fair to her family and they have always been good to me. Suffice it to say it was necessary.

I’m now divorced and loving it. When I used to live for her, now I sum up my marriage in 6 words “Whew that was a close one”. If there was one thing my ex wife was right about it is that I was literally built to be a bachelor. I have been officially back on the market since January 1st this year and dating isn’t exactly rough…when you are a strong, confident, ambitious, goal oriented guy that is proportioned like a Greek statue (fact!) and has a good heart and sense of humor. One thing I can tell you is that a while back I was curious about whether or not there was anything to the Adonis Effect. Oh it is real and it is spectacular albeit you need to have the personality in place in order to get them to realize there is more to you then looking good without a shirt. I’ve also been studying some of the stuff put out by Mystery and Style because I believe that if you are going to do something you should do it right and you can do it right by studying the people that have done it before you and then absorbing what is useful and discarding that which is not.

So suffice it to say, “I’m back baby!”

and I’m back with a vengeance.

So now this blog is going to take a couple new directions rather then simply being about kettlebell training and general things with life. I’ll give advice on dating, body weight, strongman feats and a couple other things. Don’t think of me as a guru. Think of me as the Asian kid in class that you use to get the answers from rather then the teacher. I’ll be writing about my life, not in detail because some things are better left unsaid. I’ll just say that having the Adonis Effect is a cool thing

Anyways this blog post is to just tell you that I’m back.